Do you remember where you were when you realized you needed almost constant medical help? Life becomes less fun and less fulfilling sometimes when you struggle with ongoing medical problems, which is why nursing homes and assisted living facilities are such a valuable resource. I started focusing on finding great new places that could help me out, and I narrowed down the search quickly to include a business that was near to my home. After I moved in, I could tell that a tremendous burden had been lifted, and it was a really nice feeling. Check out this blog for more information.
The majority of senior citizens — 61 percent — want to age in place, with additional home care if needed. Unfortunately, this just isn't possible sometimes. They may have received a dementia diagnosis and are no longer safe being left alone for any length of time. Or perhaps they fell and broke their hip, or maybe their current caretaker or their spouse is no longer able to care for them.
When an adult child sees that an assisted living facility may be the best option for Mom or Dad, it can be difficult to know how to broach the subject with them. The role reversal between parents and their children that often occurs can be uncomfortable for everyone. Here are three tips to remember when you need to talk to your parents about an assisted living facility.
Start Small
You don't want to spring the topic on them out of the blue. You definitely don't want to use the idea of an assisted living facility as a threat, either. Introduce the topic gradually and gently. You could mention one of your parent's neighbors who recently moved to an assisted care facility or bring up the new complex going in near your house. The goal is to plant the seed rather than announce what is going to happen.
Recruit Other Family Members
Don't try to talk to your parents about this sensitive topic on your own. Meet with your siblings, aunts, uncles, or anyone else your parents are close to. Let them know that you feel the time is nearing where assisted living will become a necessity. Ask their input and attempt to get everyone on the same page. This way, when Aunt Betty visits her older sister, she can make supportive statements rather than sabotage your efforts.
Privacy laws often prevent healthcare professionals from divulging sensitive information that would be a violation, but if you have a medical power of attorney, make sure the primary care physician is aware of your plans and is on board as well. Parents are more likely to listen to someone in a position of authority.
Ask Your Parents How They Feel About An Assisted Living Facility
Once you and other people have carefully hinted at the idea, ask your parents outright how they feel about making the move. People are often surprised to find that a parent is receptive to the notion. For example, they may feel lonely at home, whereas they know that an assisted living facility can provide more social activities.
Share14 August 2019
